I was very skeptical of your approach, but I have been trying C & F routine recently and it has been working like a charm. Your CD is incredible with information that builds on your book. An example of C & F happened recently. Women always make comments of my age and how I appear much younger than my age (i’m in my mid-thirties but appear to be 24-25). Before reading your book and listening to your CD, I would simply laugh or say thank you if a woman said I looked a lot younger than my age. Recently I was out with my friends and this good-looking woman said the same comment. My response was “come on, I’m not going to fall for a line that. You women just want me for my youthful looks”. Then I continued busting on her and left with her e-mail. My friends were all shocked by my exchange with her and my success.

I have a question though Dave. What if a woman, in the conversation with you, states she does not like a certain type of guy; for example she says she likes tall guys but one happens to be short. Can you give be a couple of examples of turning a perceived deficit (height, lack of hair, etc) into Cocky and funny responses?

Thanks a million,
Disciple in Training in D.C.

David D. COMMENTS:

First of all, I really enjoy the way you’ve turned the issue of looking younger around and framed it as a woman’s pathetic attempt to pick you up and use you.

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What do you REALLY WANT when it comes to the
area of your life called “Women and Dating”?

Could you explain it to me if I called you up
on the phone in 5 minutes and asked you?

In other words, do you REALLY, REALLY know just
what it is that you’re looking for?

If you’re like most guys that I talk to, you
probably couldn’t tell me.

Or if you did tell me, it would be clear that
you hadn’t taken any real time to think about it
before I asked you.

Now, before I tell you why this is a problem, I
have to confess something to you…

It wasn’t very long ago that I used to be in
exactly the same boat.

I had NO IDEA what I was looking for.

It was only after a LOT of trial and error,
dating crazy women that made my life impossible,
and chasing my tail that I finally figured out
what it was that I REALLY wanted.

And once I figured it out, I realize that I
wasn’t alone.

As it turns out, I think that MOST guys want
what I want when it comes to “women and dating”,
but they just haven’t thought about it long enough
to be able to say it.

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love your newsletters, always remind me the great points I read in your book… You recently wrote:

“If you buy a woman enough dinners, she may begin to feel some AFFECTION for you… but food and gifts will never lead to ATTRACTION. Big difference.”

So what do we do after the first date of tea and stimulating conversation? I figure that at some point, I would like to go to dinner with a new girl. Should I just let them pay for theirs? I did that last time, since we were just becoming friends, I wasn’t that into the woman and didn’t want to look like I was trying to impress her (since I wasn’t trying to impress her), and she also has her own business and I could tell she wasn’t struggling.

Dinner has been my main date approach in the past, and I have become the Wuss in most cases! I recently came up with a good line for a girl at the Farmers market who told me I should eat my greens… I told her she should come over and cook them for me! She didn’t know how to respond, but I think she liked it by her smile. I’m gonna hit her up next time to be serious about that request, I think she can probably cook up some nice greens to go along with my nice Ahi Tuna dish…

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